No Favoritism

8If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing right. 9But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. (2:8-9)

Favoritism. I decided to go to www.blueletterbible.org to see the original Greek word translated “favoritism.” It is prosopolempteo. Now there is a 50-cent word for you! It is a compound word literally meaning “to take hold of the face.” It describes someone who makes an immediate judgment on people based on their appearance, based on their “face.” The Greek word is only used two times in the New Testament…here in James and in Acts 10:34.

34 Then Peter opened his mouth and said: “In truth I perceive that God shows no partiality. 35 But in every nation whoever fears Him and works righteousness is accepted by Him.

The Old Testament version of this verse would be 1 Samuel 16:7:

But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

So when God looks at us, He does not look at our outward appearance. He looks straight past our face, through our skin, and into our hearts. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account (Hebrews 4:13). There is no hiding who we really are from God. He sees past all the rituals, outward motions, nice suits, pleasant words, and smiling faces to the core of who we are.

Since God alone sees the heart of a man, we are called to avoid making judgments based on appearances. We can’t see the heart. We don’t know a person’s motives. Thus we can’t accurately judge the character of a person. We leave that up to God.

That doesn’t mean we are to gullible. We are to discern a tree by its fruit (Matthew 7:20). But it does mean we are to be merciful people, loving others without regard to their outward appearance, often giving them the benefit of the doubt. Because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment! (2:13)

On the practical level, that means racism is abominable (judging a person based on their skin color or ethnicity). It also means we have to be careful of the more subtle forms of favoritism…showing preference to upper middle class white people with nice families who visit the church…labeling people and then treating them based on the label (e.g., Republican, Democrat, liberal, jerk, etc.)…showing extra kindness and attention to the beautiful young blonde over the less attractive older person.

As we grow in Christ, our eyes are to change. From now on, we regard no one according to the flesh (2 Corinthians 5:16a). Instead of seeing people outwardly and labeling them unfairly, we think two main things whenever we meet another person…they are made in the image of God and Jesus Christ died for them. Then we treat them accordingly.

Lord, give me Your eyes today…and Your love for others.

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Three Forgotten Christian Virtues

19 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; 20 for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. 21 Therefore lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls. (James 1:19-21)

I have always loved the practical wisdom of James 1:19-20–be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger. Today I noticed more of the context of these verses. Why is James emphasizing these three practical actions? Because without them, we cannot fully experience God’s good gifts (1:17), display a godly character (1:18), receive God’s Word (1:21), or avoid the devastating consequences of sin (1:21). These three actions are at the core of the Christian walk.

First, I must be quick to hear. I have to learn to listen…to God’s Word first and foremost and also to the wise counsel and input of others. And James‘ idea of listening is not simply recognizing sound waves with our ears, but rather hearing, taking matters to heart, and responding. When I ask my children to listen, I am not merely wanting them to acknowledge that I am speaking (though that is a good first step!) but rather I want them to consider my words, trust my heart, and act on what they hear.

It is interesting that the book of Proverbs uses the Hebrew word, shama (hear or listen), thirty times.

  • A wise man will hear and increase in learning… (1:5).
  • Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many (4:10).
  • The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who heeds counsel (shama) is wise (12:15).
  • One who turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be an abomination (28:9).

Trouble begins when we stop listening. How many teens head down the path of destruction…how many marriages grow cold, distant, and downright hostile…how many churches split or become havens of backbiting and gossip…because no one is listening. Humbly accept the word planted in you… (1:21, NIV). Listening requires humility and a willingness to respond. As Jesus said many times over, He who has ears, let him hear.

Second, I must be slow to speak. Obviously the two go together. In order to hear more, I have to talk less. Again, the Proverbs emphasize the wisdom of controlling one’s tongue. A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered.Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue (17:27-28). James will make a similar exhortation in chapter 3 when he talks about the importance of controlling one’s tongue as an aspect of Christian maturity and love.

Third, I must be slow to anger. A quick-tempered man does foolish things… (Proverbs 14:17). What is the typical progression in broken relationships? I stop listening. I start talking. And I grow more and more angry, resentful, and/or bitter every day. This kind of life does not produce the righteousness of God. Instead it leads to a hardened heart, a lack of inner joy, a critical spirit, and an overflow of wickedness.

God calls me to be a man with open ears, a controlled mouth, and a forgiving spirit. From this foundation, I can build a life that pleases Him.

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Don't Blame, Be Happy

13When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. 15Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. 16Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers. 17Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. 18He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.

James presents two main thoughts in this passage:

1. Don’t blame God (or anyone else) for your problems. God allows difficulties into our lives but He never entices us toward sin in the midst of these difficulties. Using a football analogy, God puts us into the game against a tough defense not to harm us but to make us a better player. And we shouldn’t blame Him when we choose to audible, ignore our teammates, and run the play in our own way.

Let’s face it. We are good at blaming God or others for our problems. It has been our modus operandi since Genesis 3 when Adam blamed God and Eve (the woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate) for his own sinful choice. Proverbs 19:3 puts it this way, A man’s own folly ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the LORD.

Our biggest problem is our own sinful heart. We have a “pull” toward sin, a lust in our hearts, and when the opportunity for sin presents itself we have a tendency to go along for the ride…the whole time blaming God for making us that way or blaming others for not helping us out enough. That doesn’t mean that others won’t hurt us or sin against us but, even in these cases, we have a choice in the way we respond. Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers.

2. Do thank God for His good gifts in life. Every good and perfect gift is from above… Despite our sinful will and choices, God continues to shower us with blessings. Every day is a gift from Him. Every breath is a gift from His hand. Sometimes we just need to stop and thank Him for all of His blessings in our life…actually let me rephrase that…every moment of every day we need to stop and thank Him for all His blessings. Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

Blaming God or others leads to bitterness, misery, and self-deception. Thanking God or others leads to joy, humility, and greater perception.

Lord, may I reflect Your goodness by my attitude today. I thank You for another day, for life, for freedom, for daily provision, for my family, for my wife, for my children, for my health, for good friends, for the body of Christ, for forgiveness, for grace, for prayer, for the opportunity to reflect Your light to others today.

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Crazy Joy

2Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. (James 1:2-3)

James starts right off with a major shock to the system. When you go through difficulties in life, consider it pure joy. Not a little bit of joy or half-hearted joy…but pure joy. Whoa. That’s downright crazy.

Why should we look positively upon trials of various kinds? Because we know that God is using the trial to strengthen our faith.

Only the eyes of faith can look at difficulties with joy. You have to really trust God…and know He has a good plan for you…to continue praising Him in the storm.

This passage was a challenge to me this morning. I don’t even consider my trials that major but I am stressed…and a little worried…and a good bit overwhelmed. These difficulties do not seem like joy to me. I would much rather be past them. I long for calmer waters. But God spoke this morning and said, “Be content where you are right now. And learn from Me. Trust Me. I can use this time in your life for My purpose and for your good.”

Verses 5-6 also hit me. 5If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.

What do we need in difficult times? Wisdom. Knowing what to do (and what not to do) and knowing when to do it (and when not to do anything). And God promises to provide that wisdom generously…just at the time we need it…if we don’t doubt and second guess ourselves all the time.

That is hard for me. I second guess a lot. Doubting comes naturally. I can identity with Thomas.

But in Christ we can have confidence…confidence that every trial has a purpose and confidence that in the midst of every trial God can give us the wisdom to navigate through it. We are overcomers in Christ Jesus. We have His Spirit. We have His Word. We have His wisdom generously provided. We just need to trust Him…walk each day in faith…and rejoice!

Lord, fill me with Your joy today. Give me wisdom for each step. Increase my faith.

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Trans-tension

I have invented a new word to describe this period of my life…trans-tension.

A little over two weeks ago I accepted a new pastoral position at a church in Baton Rouge. I am heading back to an area I am familiar with, having served in New Orleans for seven years in the 90’s.

Though I am excited about the new opportunities in Baton Rouge, I am finding out more and more how difficult it is to leave New Jersey…not the high taxes, congestion, and the snow but the people and the relationships. We have been here for almost twelve years now. Our kids have grown up here. Our roots have grown deep.

Right now I am sort of in a limbo. Between two places. I am still tied to life in New Jersey, selling the house, finishing up tasks, transitioning responsibilities…but I also now tied to a new life in Baton Rouge, buying a new house, making new relationships, preparing for new responsibilities.

Trans-tension. Being pulled across two places at the same time.

There is a level of stress in all of life’s transitions. The stress scale lists the impact of each of these transitions on our life. #1 is the death of a spouse (100 points). Moving to a new location, selling/buying a house, and taking on a new job add up to 75 points collectively.

Of course, no one can truly measure the impact of a specific event on your individual life. But the point is clear. With any transition comes tension. You are stretched. You are pulled. You are knocked out of your routine. You are forced to adjust…and to grow.

The Christian life is a trans-tension. We are citizens of heaven but also residents of earth. We are seated with Christ in the heavenlies but also seated next to someone snoring on the bus. We are called to live in two worlds at the same time. Stretched across two places. With our feet planted in the present but our eyes focused on the future.

It is not an easy balance.

But if we allow ourselves to be stretched…and learn to rest in God’s hands in the process…then we will discover what it means to grow.

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